What does it really take to be successful in life?
We often picture success as a result of big, bold actions—like making groundbreaking decisions or taking huge risks.
But that’s not really the case.
From my own observations and through research, I’ve come to realize that success often starts with behaviors that may not seem significant at first glance.
These subtle traits—when practiced consistently—create a ripple effect that leads to greater opportunities and long-term success.
Today, we’re going to break down six of these traits.
Let’s get into it.
1) Grit
Grit is a trait that’s been grabbing the attention of scientists lately.
This quality, as defined by psychologist Angela Duckworth, is all about passion and perseverance for long-term goals.
It’s about sticking with your dreams, no matter how distant they may seem, and not letting setbacks deter you.
Duckworth’s research has found grit to be a stronger predictor of success than intelligence or talent.
It’s that ability to keep going when things get tough that really distinguishes those who achieve their goals.
So, if you often find yourself pushing through challenges and staying committed to your objectives, you might just have one of the key traits that science suggests can lead to success.
2) A desire to learn
Have you ever noticed how some of the most successful people are lifelong learners?
The drive to constantly acquire new knowledge and skills is a subtle but powerful trait of those destined for success.
People who have a thirst for learning aren’t content with what they already know—they actively seek out new information and challenge themselves to grow.
As noted by socio-economist Randall Bell, who has spent more than two decades studying what it takes to succeed:
“Those who read seven or more books per year are more than 122 percent more likely to be millionaires as opposed to those who never read or only read one to three [books].”
It’s no wonder Bill Gates reads around 50 books a year!
So, ask yourself: How often are you stretching your mind and feeding your curiosity?
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Whether it’s through reading, taking a course, or seeking mentorship, this desire to learn might be the quiet force propelling you toward success.
3) Adaptability
I can’t tell you how many times adaptability has played a critical role in my own life — the time I first started my career.
I was fresh out of college, excited to make my mark in the world.
But things didn’t quite go as planned—the industry I had trained for was going through a major downturn, and jobs were scarce.
Instead of getting disheartened, I adapted.
I used my skills to pivot into a related field.
And guess what? It turned out to be one of the best decisions of my life.
Experts back up the importance of such flexibility, too.
The folks at the World Economic Forum ranked “Resilience, flexibility and agility” as the most critical self-efficacy skill for workers in their Future of Jobs Report 2023.
Life is unpredictable, and those who can adjust their sails when the winds change are often the ones who end up on top.
4) Emotional intelligence
Emotional intelligence, or EQ, is the ability to identify and manage emotions, both in yourself and in others.
It includes skills like empathy, self-awareness, and conflict resolution.
While we can all agree these things are important, you might be asking how much this influences success, right?
Well, a lot, as it turns out.
Studies have found that people with high EQ make more money—on average, almost 30 grand a year more than people with a low EQ!
Are you good at reading the room, understanding how others are feeling, or even just managing your own emotions under stress?
If so, you’re already exhibiting signs of emotional intelligence—and that’s a big win for your journey to success.
5) Self-discipline
This is probably one you expected to see on the list—and for good reason.
Self-discipline is one of the most critical traits when it comes to achieving success.
You can have all the talent, intelligence, or great ideas in the world, but without discipline, it’s nearly impossible to consistently execute on your goals.
It’s what keeps you focused and moving forward, even when motivation fades or distractions arise.
Research backs this up, too.
For instance, in a 2002 study, researchers noted that “self-control “outdoes” talent in predicting academic success during adolescence.”
Adding to this, a study of self-made millionaires found that nearly 50% of them got up at least three hours before their workday began.
I could go on, but you get the idea. So, how do we develop discipline?
Well, it’s like a muscle—the more you work it, the stronger it gets.
Whether it’s sticking to a morning routine, setting aside time to learn, or simply following through on commitments, practicing discipline in the small things is what enables you to tackle the big things.
6) Organization
Last but certainly not least, let’s talk about organization.
Being organized may seem like a basic skill, but it’s one of the most underrated traits when it comes to long-term success.
Dr. Randall Bell, who I mentioned earlier, has something to say about this, too.
He has noted that those who maintain both a calendar and to-do list are 289 percent more likely to be millionaires, as compared with those who have no real set schedule.
Yes, 289%!
Why is this so important?
Because having a clear plan allows you to manage your energy, avoid decision fatigue, and make consistent progress.
It’s hard to hit your goals if you don’t have a clear roadmap in place.
Successful people understand this—and they use calendars, lists, and systems to keep themselves on track.
Final thoughts: It all comes down to you
The beauty of human potential is that it’s not a fixed entity.
Each one of us has within us the power to cultivate these traits and steer our lives towards success.
We are, in essence, our own best project.
Whether it’s nurturing your grit, developing your emotional intelligence, or mastering the art of self-discipline, remember that these traits are not inherent or exclusive.
They can be learned, practiced, and honed.
Take a moment to reflect: which of these traits do you already possess? Which ones could you work on?
Every step you take in cultivating these traits is a step closer to your own version of success!